How to Break Free
Going it alone is like trying to speed walk on the moon. It’s hard to get traction.
Conversely, tapping into your “Who” network [those who care about you] is like walking on one of those people movers at the airport.
You just step on and all of a sudden there’s a power underneath transporting you to your destination faster than you could get there by yourself.—Bob Beaudine, The Power of Who: You Already Know Everyone You Need to Know
P.S. You stop going it alone by asking people for help and doing your favorite activities with those who also share your interests (go join some groups).